Painful relationships with those close to you
When a relationship with a partner, a parent or a child brings more pain than support.
Psychoanalytic psychotherapist in Tallinn · IPA Candidate
In my consulting room you will find a safe, confidential space where you can place your feelings and difficulties — and find the path that is truly yours.
Sessions at the consulting room in Tallinn and remotely
I work with adults and adolescents from the age of 16
Candidate of the International Psychoanalytical Association
About me
Psychoanalytic psychotherapist in Tallinn, MA in Psychology, IPA candidate.
I offer psychological help to adults and to adolescents from the age of 16 — in person at my consulting room in Tallinn and online, in Russian and English. My work rests on the psychoanalytic approach, in which attention is given not only to a particular symptom or problem, but to you as a whole — to your history and to your inner world.
I hold to high standards of professional ethics. I attend supervision with IPA members and am in personal analysis on a regular basis.
The attention here is on work in depth — it is directed at the core of the psyche, at the causes, rather than at the removal of a symptom, which comes about as a by-product of our work.
What I work with
Individual psychotherapy and psychoanalysis: anxiety, burnout, depressive states, relationships and life crises. This list is not exhaustive — if you do not find your situation here, it does not mean you cannot bring it. Write to me and we will discuss it.
When a relationship with a partner, a parent or a child brings more pain than support.
Constant worry, panic attacks, the sense that anxiety has taken charge of your life.
Low mood, loss of interest and of meaning, a state you cannot find your own way out of.
Chronic dissatisfaction with yourself, self-criticism, a feeling of not being enough beside others.
When it is unclear what you actually want, where to move, and what here truly belongs to you.
Tiredness that does not pass after rest, and a lost contact with your own resources.
The same situations and the same endings, reproduced in your life against your will.
Events that go on shaping the present and have found no place inside.
Miscarriage, termination, IVF, long attempts to conceive — an experience that is so often lived through alone.
Approach
This is a method that works in depth, directed at exploring a person's inner world and the unconscious processes that are not obvious to us, yet shape our feelings, our relationships and our choices.
The principal instrument of our work is the word — in other words, the method of free association. Here you may say whatever comes into your mind: your thoughts, your feelings, your dreams. It is not an easy task, and we learn it together, little by little.
We can discuss all of your feelings, including those that may arise towards me within our process. It is precisely this that makes the work alive and allows us to see what usually remains invisible.
How we work
As a rule, I suggest beginning with three assessment meetings.
In these I can come to know you better and understand your situation and your state, while you can get a feeling for how this way of working is for you and whether you are comfortable with me.
For some, this consultative work turns out to be enough. Others come to see that they want and need work of greater depth — regular meetings once a week or more often, in the form of psychotherapy.
The format, the regularity and the practical arrangements are things we talk through in our meeting — so that they are clear and suit you.
Session format
Both formats are equal in the depth of work they allow. The choice usually comes down to what is more convenient and more sustainable for your schedule.
The consulting room is in Tallinn. I give the exact address and directions when we arrange the first meeting.
Psychotherapy by video call in English or Russian — from anywhere in Estonia or abroad. All you need is a stable connection and a place where you will not be interrupted.
Sessions are by appointment. I work in Russian and English.
Training and qualifications
Fees
Payment is made for each session. We discuss the format of the work at our first meeting.
The first three meetings, in which we get to know each other, clarify your situation and decide how we will work further.
Regular work on a fixed day and hour. The principal format of long-term therapy.
More frequent meetings for deeper work. Moving to this format is something we discuss separately.
Fees are per session and payable in euros. Consultations take place in person in Tallinn and online — we agree on the format that suits you at our first contact.
FAQ
Psychology is the underlying degree; psychotherapist and psychoanalyst are specialisations built on top of it, each with its own years of training, personal therapy and supervision. Psychoanalytic psychotherapy differs not in what is talked about but in depth: we work towards the causes rather than towards the quick removal of a symptom.
An assessment consultation lasts 60 minutes; a regular session lasts 50 minutes. We begin with three assessment meetings, and if we decide to continue we fix a standing day and time, usually once a week. Where deeper work is needed the meetings become more frequent; that shift is discussed separately.
There is nothing to prepare — no list of topics, no wording worked out in advance. It is enough to come and begin with whatever is troubling you today. If you feel anxious before the first meeting, you can say so out loud: it is an ordinary feeling and a good place to start.
Contact
Write me a few words about what is troubling you, and I will reply so that we can arrange a first meeting.